Love is a feeling that is impossible to flee since it comes at the least expected moment. Sometimes it confuses us so much that we cannot identify what we feel for that special person, however, there are some signs that will confirm that you’re falling in love.
In case you have doubts about what you feel for that person who has come to revolutionize your world completely, some signs will confirm that you are falling in love.
#1 YOU ARE LOOKING FOR EXCUSES TO HAVE AN ENCOUNTER
Any pretext is good to be in contact with that person. In case you know where he lives, the places he frequents or where he works will not hesitate to go “by chance” to have the opportunity to see him.
No matter how far away you are, you will do everything to be by their side.
#2 YOU ARE SURE YOU HAVE EVERYTHING
Without a doubt, you are falling in love because you think that person has everything or at least the characteristics you are looking for in whom you would like to be your partner.
You have found many qualities that person, you think he is helpful, affectionate, friendly, cheerful, friendly and even things that might seem to others negative to you do not bother you.
#3 THEY CAN”T STOP LOOKING AT EACH OTHER
When a relationship flourishes, it is not strange to be surprised to look at your partner with lamb’s eyes, neither the looks in silence and direct eye contact.
It is known as the look of love and not only works with couples, in a study conducted by Scientific American it was found that this type of sustained eye contact also works with strangers, creating a kind of affection that may well be in simple complicity or derive in the familiar love at first sight.
#4 YOU DON’T SEE THEIR DEFECTS.
When we are in love, we secrete some hormones that prevent us from seeing things as they really are, which is why they say they are blindfolded.
Love prevents us from seeing the defects or negative characteristics in the other.
It should be noted that this happens during the first phase of falling in love, after this time all its defects begin to become evident.
#5 YOU FEEL ELATED
Yes, you are leaving, happy, lively and almost frantic. It is no accident and it is that, according to the Kinsey Institute, the brain of a person in love has the same activity as that of those who take cocaine.
Responsible for such a sensation is dopamine, a substance that the brain secretes to liters when we fall in love.
#6 DECREASE THE DISGUST YOU FEEL FOR THINGS
Babas, boogers, colds, kisses after eating … if before you felt phobia of germs and now these little things have stopped giving you so much disgust. You have fallen into the nets of love! The University of Groningen in the Netherlands confirms it.
In addition to these, you also begin to tolerate other eschatological behaviors such as windiness.
#7 YOU FEEL SICK
Yes, surprisingly and according to studies, the love hormone cocktail can also make us feel sick. Its physical effects resemble those caused by anxiety and stress.
#8 YOU GET SAYING INSIDE “I love you”
Yes, it is obvious. If you sit on a bench and something inside you tells you to release the “I love you” it is a clear sign that you are starting to feel something strongly.
Although many times we say it ahead of time – what is popularly known as making a Ted Mosby – as the saying goes, “if the river sounds, water carries”.
#9 YOU TEND TO COMPARE IT
You start to see everything that the person you like has and what others do not have. You convince yourself that she/he is much better than another person, any ex you have had or met. No doubt no one matches it.
#10 YOU ARE STRESSED
Not all emotions associated with love are positive, it has also been shown that the brain secretes cortisol during the early stages of love. A hormone that greatly increases stress and can make us feel overwhelmed, finding relief only when we are together.
#11 IT’S IN YOUR MIND ALL THE TIME.
There is nothing that does not remind you of that person, it is in your thinking all day.
You can’t help remembering his face, some moments that have lived together, his smile, the things he has told you, etc.
#12 YOU IMAGINE A FUTURE BY YOUR SIDE.
Whether your person is in your long, medium and short term plans.
You look at his side and when it comes to visualizing yourself in the future his image always appears in your thoughts.
Without a doubt, you want with the heart to accompany you in all the pleasant and unpleasant moments that you are going to live.
#13 CHANGE YOUR PRIORITIES.
Now you realize that your plans change depending on that person’s activities. It has become the most important thing for you, before your friends, family or acquaintances. It is not that you are leaving everything for that person, but that you put it as a priority when it comes to finding a person with whom to share your time.
#14 YOU WANT TO HELP HIM IN HIS PAIN.
It causes you enormous pain to see that person suffer. When you go through some unpleasant situation instead of running away you want to do everything possible to make that painless strong. You understand the commitment to “be with you in good times and in bad times”. So at any unpleasant moment, you are willing to be a shoulder to cry on.
#15 YOU BECOME POSSESSIVE.
You soon realize that you love that person just for you. You want the center of your attention that nothing else has eyes for you. Remember that this possessive instinct is one of the biological weapons to ensure the survival of the species. You will want to do everything with that person, accompany them all the time and spend most of your time with them. Surely jealousy will arise.
#16 YOU HAVE THE SECURITY THAT THE PASSION WILL BE ETERNAL.
Although they say that nothing is forever, you are certain that that passion they feel will never move away from the relationship. For many experts, the intense passion and infatuation of the principle diminish with the passage of time, to give way to what psychologists call attachment.
#17 YOU LOVE THEIR PECULIARITIES.
For others, it may be a defect, but for you, it is one of the personality traits that have captivated you most of your partner.
And it is that according to the tests carried out, once the physical attributes have been overcome, it is these small singularities that strengthen love.
Which one of the listed above give you the signs you’re falling in love. Please do comment and let me know.